TEN ADVICES FROM THE ‘OLD MAN’ FOR THE GUYS
1. – Stop chasing women, and FOCUS ON CHASING YOUR GOALS. Improve your economy, your value as a man increases when you are able to sustain yourself, and it will continue to increase when you have the ability to provide for others.
2. – You can read the books you want, go to the conferences you want, but nothing happens if you don’t have SELF-ESTEEM. When your self-esteem improves everything improves: your economy, your physique, your relationships, etc. If you don’t have self-esteem, you’re already at a disadvantage.
3. – If you have no inheritance, if you have no financial support, if you don’t have contacts, if you have great studies, or skills, do what a real man does: work, save, make capital. Don’t borrow to buy luxuries, nor to play entrepreneurship. It’s true that everything in life is risk, but it’s not about taking risks for taking them. Simply if you are starting out DON’T OWE YOURSELF. Work, save, capitalize, that’s how it starts.
4. – A person who wants to get ahead CANNOT AFFORD TO WASTE HIS TIME. Devote all your energy and hours possible to develop skills. What skills? Skills that help you make money: learn to sell, learn to write persuasively, learn to speak, learn to lead, learn another language, learn digital marketing, viralization, etc.
5. – If you had children at a young age, behave like a man and take your RESPONSIBILITY. You’re not the first and you won’t be the last. You can be separated from the mom or move on with her, but no matter what, don’t abandon your children, take on the role of a father to those creatures: be a provider, a protector, and a guide. Don’t use your children as an excuse, use them as a motivation to overcome yourself
6. – Your future is not in another country, YOUR FUTURE IS IN YOUR HANDS. Acquire financial education and entrepreneurial mindset, that will open your eyes and you will start seeing opportunities where you used to only see problems. Europe is not what you think, America is not what you believe, Asia is not what you see, but instead you if you are MORE than you believe, act accordingly!
7. – If you’re already in another city or country, make your decision worth all the effort. Don’t work to be sending money to irresponsible, conformist and liars family members. Help your parents and/or your children if they really need it, but fundamentally INVEST IN YOURSELF: educate yourself financially, make capital, your goal should be to become an entrepreneur or investor.
8. – Some people think that their education ended when they finished high school, others when they left university, on the other hand, successful people think that EDUCATION NEVER ENDS, so invest in training, books, mentoring, counselling, never stop learning!
9. – STUDY FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY, choosing the wrong person as a partner can ruin you. Nowadays feminism is hurting women a lot and the family is under attack. Dysfunctional homes are on the rise. There are many women, and men, emotionally damaged, so you must learn to spot the signs of a person with internal problems, or distorted behaviours. First of all, remember: to find a healthy woman, first you must have been healed, because if you’re wrong, it’s highly likely that you choose wrong, it all starts with you!
10. – DO NOT DESPERATE. Patience is underestimated, but really true wealth and true success require patience, a lot of patience. Rome wasn’t built in a day. So don’t run to run, don’t wear out. You’re living your best years, but the years ahead are even better.
