Equitorial Guinea scandal: His wife was also cheating and video taping it…
New information and leaked videos allege that Mr. Baltasar Engonga’s wife was also cheating with other men. Videos of her purportedly having hot intercourse with other men have surfaced online.
This makes it very interesting because many women had suggested that women flocked on Engonga because he knew how to handle women. They even argued that men should learn from him so they can keep their wives faithful. Well, his skills could not also keep his own wife faithful.
The videos of Engoga’s wife cheating with other men were also said to be found on his phone, prompting many suggesting that he may have cheated as a revenge, because he found out his wife was also cheating on him.
To me, People cheat because they want to cheat, and not necessarily because their partners were not satisfying them etc. People with the habit of cheating would always find reasons to justify their cravings.
Hence, you can be loving, skilled in bedmatics, like Engonga, good looking, providing all needs and still be cheated on.
Even many who feign faithfullness are not really faithful. They just haven’t found the right opportunities to cheat and many cheat in their minds everyday. The Bible says by just conceiving the thoughts, you have already committed adultery or fornication.
A faithful man or woman is that partner who would have all the opportunities, and reasons, to cheat and not be caught but would restrain his or herself from engaging in such illicit affairs.
The question is: how many alleged faithful wives and husbands can pass this test if given the requisite opportunities with guaranteed privacy and obscurity?
To get entangled with another man or another woman while still in an active relationship is a choice that you should own up and take responsibility, than try to level inexistent blames. Many humans have the thirst to cheat, and some come in as natural desires. It only takes a very disciplined mind to ignore and resist such desires, especially when the situation is convenient for it.
Sadly, like any other desires, not everyone has the ability to enforce discipline and do what is right. Hence, people will always cheat irrespective of their legal fulcrum with existing partners.
So a cheat is a cheat and that’s it! Period!
