Allow Married Women To Bear Fathers’ Names – Islamic Group Tells FG
Our heritage reporter reports that the Muslim Rights Concern (MURIC) has called on the Federal Government to initiate reforms in Nigerian marriage legislation, advocating for the inclusion of provisions permitting married women to retain their paternal surnames.
MURIC’s executive director, Prof Ishaq Akintola, stated this on Monday in a statement.
According to Akintola, the existing practice of compelling married women to adopt their husbands’ surnames is deemed gender discriminatory, antiquated, and oppressive.
He criticized the prevailing practice, denouncing it for infringing upon women’s inherent and Allah-given fundamental human rights to personal and parental identity within marriage. Instead, he endorsed the adoption of a more women-friendly Islamic practice that permits married women to retain their fathers’ surnames post-marriage.
“No woman dropped suddenly from the sky and even if some appear out of nowhere, they must have been born, bred, nurtured, and marmaladed by certain parents before they grew up and matured into womanhood.
“Their education was also sponsored by their parents at a time when the future husband probably knew nothing about them and spent no kobo on their upbringing and their education.
“It therefore beats logic, fairness, and natural justice that a husband appears out of nowhere to commandeer a woman’s parental identity simply by marrying her,” Akintola said.
Akintola insisted that such identity robbery also has its advantages.
He said, “For instance, women who are educated are forced to advertise change of names to their husbands’ surnames after marriage to retain the validity of their documents and properties. It often becomes very difficult and sometimes impossible for married women to be located or to retain old friends due to such a change of name.
“Islam sets women free from such stress by permitting married women to retain their original family names. Contrary to the general claim that Islam discriminates against women, Islamic liberation theology teaches respect for the dignity of women in all circumstances.
“One of such circumstances is the period when women are in wedlock. Whereas Western civilization robs married women of their original family identity by insisting that they should bear their husbands’ surnames, the Shari’ah allows women to bear their own fathers’ names even after marriage.”
